Ready for marriage?
How to recognize the readiness for getting married?
Do you want to be happily married? How do you understand you are absolutely ready for this step of your life? If you have answers to all this questions then go ahead!
1. Why do you want to get married? Why are you getting married? 2. Do you really know your partner`s personality? Can you really trust him? 3. Are you planning a life after the marriage? 4. Are you investing more than is required? Is your relationship going to cost your entire life? 5. Have you told him/her what is expected? Have you communicated your needs and wants?
Be honest with yourself. Don`t get married for the sake of not being alone or to fulfill some insecurity. You can`t only think about the wedding. You must consider what is going to happen after it. Make sure he/she is the one that you want to lose everything for. Know yourself. Know what you want. You can`t determine if someone is right for you if you don`t know your own needs. Tell what you want and what you expect of him/her as a husband/wife and a father/mother, not after you have made the move into marriage. And finally… be happy!
June 10, 2008
